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Zoicy
ZoicyOctober 14, 2021 12:37

I am a gay..and I do not know what to do


After 3 years I was finally able to tell this thing to my closest friend and now I am ready to say it there also. Unfortunately I feel I am surrounded by people who do not except homosexuals very well and I am very scared to make a coming out :(( So if anyone of you have some tips, how to be okay with my sexual oriantation and how to make coming out to my family and friends, pls give me an advice!!
Currently I am having the hardest days of my life and I feel so relieved I am able to finally say loudly I AM A GAY. Guys pls dont judge me, you have no clue what a hard thing this is. I am very emotional rn and all i want is just to be accepted the way i am and not to be judged.
Love you allheart

on October 16, 2021 09:05
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Candi
on October 16, 2021 04:38
Candi
Candi
heart
on October 15, 2021 12:59
Zoicy
Zoicy
@sebby113@Trinity2000@Ian@Stuie thank youu all so muchheart@Stuie thank you for an offer, if I need anything, i will talk to you!heart
on October 15, 2021 06:27
Stuie
Stuie
Hey man, I am gay too and I have been there. If you need to talk hit me up on discord..
on October 14, 2021 23:20
Ian
Ian
All love brother <3 Just be you
on October 14, 2021 22:49
Trinity2000
Trinity2000
heartheartheart
on October 14, 2021 22:46
sebby113
sebby113
Sending nothing but love!
on October 14, 2021 22:45
sebby113
sebby113
ILY ZZZ!!!! Your such an amazing person and really are such a positive light on zwooper. Im proud of you yes
on October 14, 2021 21:22
Zoicy
Zoicy
Thank you so much @TombRaider
on October 14, 2021 21:12
TombRaider
TombRaider
Proud of you! heart

When it comes to people who might not accept it, the hard truth is...you have to cut them off and live the life you need to, in order to be happy. We get one shot at life and you have to do what's best for you! It will be hard, but give it time and you will heal and become more confident than ever! And sometimes the people who don't accept it initally, usually come around to it after they self reflected on themselves.

Wishing you all the best, my dm's are always open if you want to chat! heart
on October 14, 2021 20:19
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Brittanya this message is really so nice from you, thank you so much❤
on October 14, 2021 20:06
Brittanya
Brittanya
First and foremost, give yourself kudos babes! Celebrate being able to share this part of yourself with your closest friend! Second, you are fabulous the way you are, feel and process things as they come, and never feel obligated or pressured to come out if you don't feel comfortable. And be safe in the knowledge that Zwooper is a place that will love and accept you wholly and completely. kiss
on October 14, 2021 19:49
Zoicy
Zoicy
@TheBreeze thank you so much! And yeah hopefullyy
on October 14, 2021 19:47
TheBreeze
TheBreeze
That is a huge step man! With time it will get better, look forward to where you are happy and comfortable in those surroundings
on October 14, 2021 19:38
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Tone thank you so much! ❤
on October 14, 2021 19:14
Tone
Tone
Much love for you my friend, you're an amazing human being and I'm super proud of you :)
on October 14, 2021 18:07
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Spyder thank you! ❤
on October 14, 2021 16:56
Spyder
Spyder
Proud of you Zoicy! Keep on being yourself! heart
on October 14, 2021 16:48
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Vin014@IrishCraic thank you so much guys! Means a lot ❤
on October 14, 2021 16:43
IrishCraic
IrishCraic
be yourself dude
on October 14, 2021 16:33
Vin014
Vin014
This is very hard to do and I admire you so much for having the courage to do this. Even if it's one small step, I'm very proud of u man!! heart
on October 14, 2021 16:25
Zoicy
Zoicy
@08SaraR you are!❤
on October 14, 2021 16:15
08SaraR
08SaraR
Much love, Zoicy! You're amazing! <3
on October 14, 2021 16:04
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Nicolas díky bráško, budu se snažit! ❤
on October 14, 2021 16:01
Nicolas
Nicolas
Buď hrdý na to kým si, tí čo za to stoja, budú stáť pri tebe. Nech ti to dopadne! smiley
on October 14, 2021 15:56
Zoicy
Zoicy
@CoolDude12 yes but i guess i need more time, not feeling confident enough yet to tell them
on October 14, 2021 15:46
CoolDude12
CoolDude12
are you gonna tell irl friends hehehehehehehehehehe
on October 14, 2021 15:42
Zoicy
Zoicy
on October 14, 2021 14:54
shalwin
shalwin
First of ALL I LOVE YOUUU!!!!!!
YOUUUUU WILL GET THRU THIS MY mahn,I promise you it gets easier,The toughest wave is behind youuuuuuu
Focus on your education or whatever your good at and get independent!!!
Things are only upwards from heree
on October 14, 2021 14:44
Carson16
Carson16
Nothing changes man. We heart you!!!
on October 14, 2021 14:42
Seanoh
Seanoh
Thanks for sharing this part of you, coming out is a tremendously personal thing. Do it on your own time and know you don't owe anyone any explanation on your identity. Take your time and know there are so many people who will love and accept you for exactly who you are!
on October 14, 2021 14:39
TheDemonicM
TheDemonicM
❤️
on October 14, 2021 14:31
Wolfwoodcp82
Wolfwoodcp82
You're perfect just the way you are. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
on October 14, 2021 14:19
Royalty
Royalty
its ok z. just take things easy and take babysteps at a time. i understand where you are coming from 100% at the end of the day you just need to be you (heart)
on October 14, 2021 13:39
Zoicy
Zoicy
@SteliosDeGriek i am trying to quite down myself by this 2021 phrase, but i just really feel in such a small town where i live it is a pretty big tabu, hopefully it is just my assumption, and i will be accepted no matter what, but thank you ❤
on October 14, 2021 13:35
SteliosDeGriek
SteliosDeGriek
ey my guy its 2021 beeing gay ik ok besides if your true friends and family dont accept you due to your sexuality than they aint friends and family after all
on October 14, 2021 13:29
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Jacob071 well tbh not really, I feel like a wreck recently, but i am trying my best to overcome everything of this to strenghten me, but thank you❤
on October 14, 2021 13:28
Jacob071
Jacob071
You are so strong Zoicy ❤️
on October 14, 2021 13:27
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Nitu man this is so sweet, thank you so much ❤❤❤❤ @Jude
on October 14, 2021 13:13
Jude
Jude
heart
on October 14, 2021 13:10
Nitu
Nitu
Don't let anyone feel you sidelined zoicy I'm so happy you were brave enough to come out in front of whole bunch of people in zwooper and even though this is just the beginning because coming out to some strangers or people u personally don't know is kuch easier than coming out to ur family n friends but no one else can tell you how to come out to them you don't need to come out to them instantly take your time I know you're on a emotional high but I believe in you you're such a kind soul your close ones will always support you and always remember if no one does there are zillions of people in this world who accept you as you are and I need you to know I'm so proud of you and I always stand with you and your decisions no matter what keep your chin up mate . Sending love ❤
on October 14, 2021 12:48
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Swish means a lot, thank youheart
on October 14, 2021 12:48
Zoicy
Zoicy
@Jumanji I have tried so hard to be "normal", but dating with girl was just horrible and I feel I cant keep this important thing just by myself anymore. It is way too soul-destroying to pretend being someone I am not. thank you so much for your kind wordsheart
on October 14, 2021 12:46
Swish
Swish
So much love for you brother! You got the biggest heart I know and I am so proud of you!
on October 14, 2021 12:45
Jumanji
Jumanji
Sending love and positivity to you. I honor you for being so brave in living your truth. You are amazing!!!
on October 14, 2021 12:42
Zoicy
Zoicy
@CoolDude12 this is just very emotionally hard for me, honestly in town I live i dont know anyone else who is gay, the way harder this is for me rn, but thank youheart
on October 14, 2021 12:40
CoolDude12
CoolDude12
Don't worry friend, I prefer stick as well and I'm happy about it.

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